Info 4 My Students: Slide of MK Law of Labor

“the scientific study of the relation between man and the world at work; the study of the adjustment people make to the place they go, the people they meet and the things they do in the process of making a living” (Guion, in Muchinsky 1983)

“both the study of behavior in organizational and work settings and the application of the methods, facts, and princiiples of psychology to individuals and groups in organizational and work settings” (APA).

Those are two of definition of Organizational & Industrial Psychology (O/IP).
Lets study a part of O/IP, its Law of Labor.
here is...

1. chapter 1. introduction law of labor, please click here
2. chapter 2. definition, concept, and terminology of law of labor, please click here
3. chapter 3. history of law of labor, please click here
4. chapter 4. employee and industrial relation, please click here
5. chapter 5. labor protecting, please click here

and post mid-semester

6. chapter 6.
7. chapter 7.
8. chapter 8.
9. chapter 9.
10. chapter 10.

Stop Believing in Your Own Weakness

It is our fear of being alone and in doubt, of wanting to feel certain that what we are doing is right, that compels us to seek the approval of others.

So this tells us that the chief cause of why our lives so often wind up in the hands of others is not that they are superior or that the world is too strong for us, but that we don't want to face the uncertainty and aloneness we think we are too weak to bear. This is the real cause of all our wrong relationships in life. We have been betrayed by a belief in our own weakness.

The conscious refusal to go along with what our weakness wants us to do to escape its uncertainty is what invokes and finally delivers real inner confidence. This new kind of strength gradually becomes the cornerstone of a true individual existence -- the life we've always wanted. The stakes are actually eternal -- but self-victory is as certain as the fact that light always triumphs over darkness.

Use the following ten key lessons to help strengthen your understanding of these vital ideas. Think about them; welcome their healing insights as "lights along the way" to true self-liberation.

Special Study for Lasting Self-Confidence

1. When you don't know what to do with yourself, someone will always be happy to tell you.

2. Why seek the approval of someone who doesn't even approve of himself?

3. Fawning before an angry person is like asking a rabid wolf for its approval.

4. The more approval you get, the more you have to have.

5. Keeping any person or circumstance in your life that demands you surrender your right to be a whole and happy human being is wrong for everyone involved.

6. When you are out there standing in a storm, don't blame the weather.

7. Real strength always follows uncovering one of the roots of weakness.

8. Don't seek yourself. Dare to be yourself.

9. If you were really doing the right thing with your life, you wouldn't need anyone to tell you that you were.

10. Permitting your life to be taken over by another person is like letting the waiter eat your dinner.

No human being has any authority over you. Your life belongs to you and to you alone. No scowling face or irritated manner, no challenging posture or threatening tone, has any power to make you feel nervous oranxious, frightened or angry. Your true nature answers to no one. This is a fact, and anyone who is tired of letting someone else tell them how to feel can use this self-liberating principle to win true and lasting independence.

Source: milist of TCI

April's 2011 WTS (Workshop, Training and Seminar)

- Short Training: "Integrated Motivation for UN (Parent, Teacher, and Student in Spiritual Motivation)"
Outline : supporting the student's & child's dreams, making social support & praying for it
Time & Place: MIN Jambusari, Cilacap, April, 1, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo & Zain Numanta
Trainee : Parents, Teachers & Students of MIN Jambusari

- Training: "Jobseeking"
Outline : know & simulating how to writing CV & application letter, handling interview & psychological testing
Time & Place: Aula FT UMP, 4th floor, April, 7, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo & Widya Nirmalawati
Trainee : Students of UMP (pre-graduate)

- Short Training: "Teambuilding for Athlete of Football"
Outline : awaken the giant within, understanding the own team and make a team spirit
Time & Place: Aula Grendeng, April, 7, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : Football player of PSG (Persatuan Sepakbola Grendeng)

- Workshop: "Expert Speaking: Sex Education for Pueral" (pending)
Outline : learn skill, knowlegde & attitude to be an smart parent about sex education and reproduction health of children
Time & Place: Aula SDIT Al Irsyad Purwokerto, April, 13, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : Parents of 5th grade class

- Workshop: "Parenting Days: Effect of TV, Internet, Comic, & Hp for Children" (pending)
Outline : learn skill, knowlegde & attitude to be an smart parent about effect of techonology of information
Time & Place: Aula SDIT Al Irsyad Purwokerto, April, 23, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : Parents

- Workshop: "Parenting Days: Sinergy of Parent-Teacher to Educate Our Child Together" (pending)
Outline : know and understand how important sinergy of parent and teacher and dealing the "picture of ideal sinergy"
Time & Place: Aula SDIT Al Irsyad Purwokerto, April, 30, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : Parents & Teacher

Just About Training (6)

Inspiring Clips

Clip or short movie or TV commercial clip can make our training so interesting and powerfully. Its can visualize or illustrate about our presentation, reinforcement the impact and make audience understand about our ideas.

Below, I have several clip that illustrate about inspiration. May be it can used in your training, especially in motivation & spiritual thopics.

Here are.

Clip inspiration 1: "The Dont Quick Poem" click here
Clip inspiration 2: "Hoyt - a Father & a Son" click here
Clip inspiration 3: "I give myself" click here
Clip inspiration 4: "Diffable motivator" click here
Clip inspiration 5: "" click here

Your Belief Becomes Your Reality

By: Brian Tracy

The Determinant of Your Success
Perhaps the most powerful single factor in your financial success is your beliefs about yourself and money. We call this the Law of Belief. It says simply this: Whatever you believe, with feeling, becomes your reality. Whatever you intensely believe becomes your reality. That we have a tendency to block out any information coming in to us that is inconsistent with our reality.

What Successful People Believe
What we've discovered is that successful people absolutely believe that they have the ability to succeed. And they will not entertain, think about, or talk about the possibilities that they'll fail. They do not even consider the possibility of failure.

Positive Thinking Versus Positive Knowing
You always act in a matter consistent with your beliefs. The most important belief system you can build is a prosperity consciousness where you absolutely believe that you are going achieve your financial goals. We call this positive knowing versus positive thinking. Positive thinking can sometimes be wishing or hoping. But positive knowing is when you absolutely know that no matter what, you will be successful.

The Foundation of Willpower
Another principle related to your beliefs is willpower. We know that willpower is essential to any success. Willpower is based on confidence. It's based on conviction. It's based on faith. It's based on your belief in your ability to triumph over all obstacles. And you can develop willpower by persistence, by working on your goals, by reading the biographies of successful people, by listening to audio programs, by reading books about people who've achieved success. The more information you take into your mind consistent with success, the more likely it is that you will develop the willpower to push you through the obstacles and difficulties you will experience.

Beat the Odds on Success
Remember that success is rare. Only one person in one hundred becomes wealthy in the course of a lifetime. Only five percent achieve financial independence. That means that the odds against you are 19-to-1. The only way that you're going to achieve your financial goals is if you get really serious. To succeed, you must get serious. You must get busy. You must get active. You must get going. Remember, everything counts.

Resolve to Achieve Greatly
Self-mastery, self-control, self-discipline are essential for anyone who wants to achieve greatly. And control over your thoughts is the hardest exercise in self-mastery that you will ever engage in. See if you can talk and think about only what you desire and not talk or think about anything that you don't want for 24 hours. Then you'll see what you're really made of. It's a hard thing to do but with practice, you can reach the point where you are thinking about your goals and desires most of the time. Then, your whole life will change for the better.

Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do to build a belief system consistent with the financial success you desire:

First, continually repeat to yourself the words, pictures and thoughts consistent with your dreams and goals. Whatever you repeat often enough, over and over, becomes a new belief.

Second, set a goal for yourself to think and talk only about the things that you want for the next 24 hours. This will be one of the hardest things you ever do. But if you can keep your mind on what you want and off of what you don't want for 24 hours, you can begin to change your entire future.

March's 2011 WTS (Workshop, Training, & Seminar

- "Motivation for Preparation of National Exam"
Outline : knowing "self", make d'dream, efficacy, motive, time management, support system
Time & Place: Aula SMAN 1 Rembang, March, 3, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : 12nd grade, students of SMAN 1 Rembang

- Seminar & Training: "Jobhunting"
Outline : know & simulating how to writing CV & application letter, handling interview & psychological testing
Time & Place: Aula FISIP Unsoed, March, 17, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : Students of FISIP Unsoed

- "Motivation for Preparation of National Exam"
Outline : knowing "self", make d'dream, efficacy, motive, time management, support system
Time & Place: Aula SMAN 1 Bukateja, March, 11, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : 12nd grade, students of SMAN 1 Bukateja

- Training: "Disaster Management"
Outline : Understand about what is disaster, and how to manage the disaster from mitigation untill rehabilitation steps by contijention
Time & Place: Aula Surya Yudha Bank, Banjarnegara, March, 21-24, 2011
Trainer : Haryanto, Ugung DA Wibowo, & Naibul Umam
Trainee : Beurocrat of Pemkab Banjarnegara

- Seminar & Training: "Jobhunting"
Outline : know & simulating how to writing CV & application letter, handling interview & psychological testing
Time & Place: Ruang D-201 FE Unsoed, March, 31, 2011
Trainer : Ugung DA Wibowo
Trainee : Students of FE Unsoed

7 Simple Steps for Achieving Your Dreams

By Scott Armstrong

I want to share with you seven simple steps to achieve any dream that you desire. These are the same seven steps I used to achieve the biggest dream of my life, qualifying for and running in the Boston Marathon.

While reading please keep in mind I have used these same steps time and time again to attain goals, ranging from record sales, becoming an accomplished speaker via Toastmasters or transforming myself from a steak lover to a strict vegetarian.

1. SET GOALS (Tetapkan Cita-cita Anda, & Mimpi-mimpi Anda)
One of the key steps in achieving your dream is to set goals on a consistent basis. You need to create goals both for the long term and the short term, and put them in writing! Studies have shown that when you write down a goal the chances of achieving it are a thousand times greater. Here are some goal setting strategies that have helped me along my journey to achieving my dreams:
1. Goals must be specific, measurable, attainable and realistic.
2. Goals must have a time limit.
3. Goals must be positive, personal, and in the present tense.
4. Rewrite, review and visualize the achievement of your goals on a daily basis. "It is a psychological law that whatever we wish to accomplish we must impress on the subjective or subconscious mind." - Orison Swett Marden

2. VISUALIZE (lakukan visualisasi mimpi Anda)
Make a habit of visualizing your dream on a daily basis. Training for my twelfth marathon, I visualized obtaining a sub 3:10 qualify time required to run in the Boston Marathon. I saw each mile marker along the 26.2 mile course with the time I needed. I pictured myself, at the end of that race, celebrating with my wife and calling my coach to tell him the good news that I qualified for Boston ! These visualization techniques worked extremely well for me and I guarantee they will work for you! "Without a vision people perish (Binasa)."

3. BE PERSISTENT (Gigih lah dengan apa yg Anda perjuangkan)
Now that you have your goals written down and you are doing your daily visualization exercises you need to have persistence! It took me twelve years and twelve marathons to achieve my dream. There were many times I wanted to give up, yet I never wavered in my goals or my ultimate dream. Never, never, never give up!

4. HAVE FAITH (Mempunyai keyakinan.... Yakinlah)
I have a favorite quote that says "The size of your success is determined by the size of your belief". I've learned, along several of my own journeys, the importance of having an uncompromising faith in myself which has been a critical component in accomplishing my goals. "Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve." -Napoleon Hill

5. EXHIBIT DISCIPLINE (Tunjukkanlah kedisiplinan Anda)
Discipline is a key component required to achieve your goals and dreams. When working toward your dream think of discipline as having the ability to flick the little doubting man off your shoulder who says "can you really do this?" You need to have the "I can do it!" attitude. Holding the vision or experience that inspired you in the forefront of your mind will help you stay disciplined. Remember - self doubt destroys! "With every disciplined effort there is a multiple reward." -Jim Rohn

6. FIND a MENTOR or COACH (Dapatkan Mentor Atau Coach Untuk Membantu Anda)
The ability to seek out and learn from others, specifically those who have already accomplished similar goals and dreams, is an invaluable resource for your success. In my case, I hired
a former Olympic marathon runner, turned coach to support and inspire me. With his help I achieved a dream that had escaped me during the twelve long years I tried to do it alone!

7. HAVE GRATITUDE (Berterimakasih lah, Bersyukurlah)
One of the most important qualities one can have on one's journey to obtaining a dream is "an attitude of gratitude". Every morning I make a habit of spending a minimum of five minutes reflecting on the many things I am truly grateful for in my life. When you are grateful for life's gifts, you are truly rich.